Five Things You'D Better Not Do When You Move Up.

    眼看你的同事升官的升官，加薪的加薪，你却原封不动。这是怎么回事?也许你因此百思不得其解，甚至怨声不绝。出现这种情况，你有没有想过从自身来寻找原因？当然，这种情况落在你的头上，不一定是你的能力不足，而是你的人际关系不足。如果你人际关系不好，你就不会出头，这是残酷的事实。为了以后的发展，请你细心阅读下面的几点，这些可能是你停滞不前的原因：

    笨事1：你觉得把份内工作做好，就够了 

Wrong! Work ability, efficiency, trustworthiness, even your academic qualifications will not be a single pointer, nor will it be the most important.

Whether you are a teacher, a nurse, an accountant or a secretary, the working environment itself is composed of people. Each person has the priorities and priorities of everyone concerned, and learns how to adjust the center of gravity between his superiors and colleagues. This is the so-called company politics (Politics).

No matter how angry you may be, your future in the company will be influenced by how to confront small arguments and to put stationery on to the big events like who will take a day off this month.

    笨事2：你不理会谣言 

Wrong!

Rumors are the vitality of a company, and signs of many things begin from that time, and the signs of wind before rain are coming. Even if the details of the rumor are incorrect, you can guess some clues even if there is no wind and no waves.

For example, someone saw that your company's opponent had met with the general manager recently. (a person said no, at least three people knew about this matter. If you hurried to pass the message, tell your people that you passed it off, and you won't hear the news next time).

However, sometimes you have to add grapevine news. A face with no interest will also let people pass you in the future.

The big principle is that you are interested in listening, but do not let everyone push you to be a radio station.

    笨事3：你认为同事可以是患难知己 

Wrong!

For a few months, Xiaoling was very clear about your housework. She heard your mother nagging on the phone, knowing that you call her boyfriend nickname, even your physiological cycle, and you are always around.

All of this makes you feel good to have such intimate friends.

But if you get a raise in three months, and Xiaoling doesn't have it, it's a coincidence that you become her boss.

At this time, you think, as your best friend, she should be happy for you. I hope so.

But power and money often change many people's minds, especially when it comes to the future of a person.

If Xiaoling is no longer your friend, you may begin to worry about all the secrets you have disclosed before.

Of course, the most unfortunate result is the evolution of Gen Levins Ki and Linda Trapp, and your conversation is recorded.

Stupid 4: you neglect to despise your enemy.

Wrong!

Most people think that our friends give us the greatest support. The enemy tries to hurt us, fabricate them and ignore them.

In fact, friends, nice to listen to you, protect you, even if your jokes are bad, they will say funny.

On the contrary, your enemies can't wait to catch your pigtail. If you make a mistake, they will accuse it immediately, and they will not keep it. They attack your most vulnerable place, where friends will never appear.

So face up to the enemy's eye, this good opportunity lets you mend the armor and make up for the shortcomings. Next time they come again, you are ready to be ready.

    笨事5：你常常很露骨的拍上司的马屁

Wrong!